Friday On The Couch -- With David Marshall Grant
Penetrating as DMG's eyes are, it's those ears that enable his brilliant interpretations.
Before joining Brothers & Sisters in May 2006, David Marshall Grant had primarily worked as an actor and playwright. But he quickly became a stalwart of the B&S writing staff – co-authoring episodes 107, 109, 113, 115, 119, 123, 202, 207, 210, 213 and, most recently, 301.
While it goes without saying that David’s transition to television has been smooth, those of us who lunch in the 4th floor conference room have become intimately acquainted with one of his lesser known skills: interpreting dreams. Simply put, the man has a gift.
David was generous enough to put writing episode 305 on hold in order to humor us. With this in mind, I sent Beth Schwartz, assistant to Consulting Producer Josh Reims, into David’s office armed with a tape recorder and a head full of trouble.
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Beth Schwartz: Thanks for taking the time, David.
David Marshall Grant: Don’t mention it. What do you got for me?
BS: Okay. The dream had three parts. In the first part, I was in a cabin with some of my old campers, from when I was a counselor in Michigan. Yes, I was a camp counselor.
DMG: Please go on, Beth. I have to finish Act Three.
BS: Alright, alright. We were all packing up to leave camp and go home the next day. When there was nothing left to do except go to sleep, I went to my bed…but there was an enormous spider web next to it!
DMG: Hmm.
BS: What? Does that mean something?
DMG: Maybe. But I was just wondering when the next Starbucks run is. Alas, continue.
BS: In the second part, the cabin turned into a college campus. I found myself in an aerobics/dance class. There, I saw a high school friend lying on the floor, fast asleep, with peanut butter smothered across her face and hands.
DMG: Disgusting.
BS: Since she was obstructing the dancing, we slid her to the side of the room. That was the second part. Then, all of a sudden, I was running down the stairs to catch a play.
DMG: Like… a football play?
I was really hoping to find out this was in the dream. Oh well.
BS: Like a theatre play. Anyway, there was an older woman waiting outside, and she asked me if I was alone, because if I was, I was more than welcome to join her friends. I assured her that I was meeting some friends of my own. Although privately, I was a bit worried my friends wouldn’t show up. But, sure enough they did, and I didn’t have to sit with the old women… What are you writing?
DMG: Just some notes about my scene. Is an avocado a fruit or a nut?
BS: Umm...
DMG: Never mind, it's a nut. Now -- do you remember what this play was or where it was?
BS: I doubt you've seen it.
DMG: Watch your tone, young lady. Now who was the woman who came up to you?
BS: Someone I don’t recognize.
DMG: Was she an older woman?
BS: Yes.
DMG: Do you see plays? A lot? How often do you seem them?
BS: I grew up seeing them. I come from a theatre family. My mom directs plays.
DMG: Do you take a dance/aerobic workshop now?
BS: Sometimes.
DMG: Did you take dance when you were a kid?
BS: Yeah…
DMG: This dream is very clear to me.
BS: What? Really?!
DMG: This is a dream about being afraid of losing your childhood, about being desperately afraid that it’s all slipping away from you. First part of the dream takes place at a camp, which is your actual childhood. You said it was time to leave, but you needed to go to bed before you left… which you couldn’t do, because of the spiders. In other words, you’re afraid that if you go to sleep, “it” will all be over.
BS: "It"?
DMG: The whole shebang, kiddo. Life.
BS: Yikes.
DMG: Your next stop was adolescence. The girl who is smothered in peanut butter serves as a warning for you. Peanut butter is a childish food. But because she wasn’t careful enough to not “go to sleep,” she’s dead, and you have to drag her off the floor. In the last dream, you went to the play, where an older woman asks if you have any friends – and you’re all like, “No, no, no! I’m still young. I’m not with you yet." You’re scared that you might be with her now, and then your younger friends show up. This relieves you, to know that you’re still young and in your childhood.
BS: That’s really good, David!
DMG: No sweat. I’m here all week.
BS: So, can you sum it all up for me?
DMG: Look, it’s about the fear of getting older – as well as the anxiety about that fear. It’s a dream about trying not to hold on to your childhood. You want to know: How can you be an adult but not be old? What’s the middle ground between childhood and old age? You need to try and make peace with that. It’s a great dream; it’s an affirmation of your maturity.
BS: Wow. You're like a shrink mixed with a spin doctor.
DMG: In this business, you ought to wear every hat you can find. Now let me write my script!
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