Air Date: December 28, 2006
Hello people who read our blog! Thank you so much for caring enough to not only watch the show, but to read about the making of the show. As you may or may not know (depending how many blogs you read), I worked with Jenny Bicks in the writer's room of Sex and the City, and I was friends with her even before that, so we have a long history together, and I'm very proud to be working on this new show of hers. The only thing better than writing television is writing television with people you actually like and respect, and I've been lucky enough to do that for many years now, and in the fun and fabulous writer's room at Men at Trees (which you should be getting a taste of from these blogs), I get to do it some more.
Being in Vancouver for the shooting of this episode was a real treat. For starters, I'd never been to Vancouver, and it's beautiful... a great downtown ringed with a walking/jogging/biking path and surrounded by water. You see logging ships, cruise ships and seaplanes, and then beyond the water all around you are beautiful snow-capped mountains. It's really breathtaking, and although it's Canada (not Alaska), you get that Elmo feelings that you are closer to nature, and once you drive the hour to Squamish (the little town we use for Elmo), you truly feel like you can finally, as Marin does, breathe.
In addition, this was my first chance to meet most of the cast, and I'm happy to report that they were all incredibly welcoming and excited to be doing this show. It's hard getting a show up and running, and it was great to see that the cast is really loving the material and loving working together, which I think shows up on screen. Anne Heche (Marin) and James Tupper (Jack) clearly enjoy working together, which is why their scenes together always sparkle. When I was there, James had just started working out with a personal trainer, and after his first training session he stopped by the set to show Anne how incredibly buff he was getting. He's really funny and self-deprecating, and a very nice guy. That's right, fans. He's the real deal. Merry Christmas!
John Amos (Buzz) had a lot to do this episode, which is great because I think he's a fantastic actor. One funny aside -- he hadn't read the script before the table read (that's the first time the cast reads the script aloud), so when we got to the ending (about how he might be Patrick's father) he was as surprised as you might have been. In fact, he joked that he would need to see a DNA test.
Speaking of Patrick (Derek Richardson), he's really good, don't you think? He's not only adorable and nice (as nice in person as he is on screen), but he can do the comedy and the drama. He takes his job as an actor very seriously and he's always looking to ground his scenes in real emotion. For example, in that final dinner with Celia, he played that angrier than I imagined it, but I think he was right to do that because he's really feeling betrayed by his mother. It was great watching him perform with Cynthia Stevenson (Celia) in those mother/son scenes they had together. She also had a lot to play in this episode, and she amazes me the way she can play a tough moment, and then turn on a dime and make it funny. This episode was also the first time we did a scene just between Jack and Patrick (their scene on the dock) and I thought it was great to see men (especially these men) trying to connect and comfort each other. What I remember was that it was really loud that day on the dock, there were a lot of planes flying overhead, so we had to do many takes of the scene, but the actors nailed it every time.

I also really enjoyed working with the director of this episode, Tamra Davis. There aren't a lot of women directors in television, and she was a pleasure to watch and learn from. Plus she's a groovy rock-and-roll Soho/Malibu mom who is married to a Beastie Boy and films her own cooking show soon to be featured on Yahoo, so she was inspiring to be around not just professionally, but in general. To give you an example of her offbeat coolness: The scene between Patrick and Buzz at the end of the show (when they go to see the plane wreck) was in a very muddy spot, so on the way to the set Tamra decided we should stop by a thrift store and buy $2 shoes that we could throw away afterwards. It was fun shoe shopping with her (and not for Christian Louboutins!) and I found it funny to imagine that somebody's old shoes spent the day on the set of our television show.
Liza (Ever Carradine) was great to work with and a fun character to write because she gave us a little window into Marin's family dynamic. Sometimes when you're in a new city (or new relationship), you feel like you can be whoever you want to be... until your family shows up. There is a writer on staff who has a friend who is still known in her family as New Baby, so that's where that idea came from, as much as I would love to take credit for it.
What I can take credit for, unfortunately, is the quarters game New Baby (Liza) instigates at the Chieftain. It came out of the fact that I grew up in Oklahoma where my girlfriends and I were no strangers to drinking games. On the set when we filmed that, Tamra began referring to me as "the quarters expert" because I had to explain the rules of the game to the cast and crew, and although that was a little embarrassing (it doesn't seem as cool now as it did back then), I did feel a little vindicated that all those nights of playing quarters were finally paying off. (It was research, Mom!)
Most importantly... those cute firemen were real firemen from Vancouver, except for the one Liza went out with. He was an actor playing a cute fireman. So, if you are ever desperate to meet a real man and you can't afford to go to Alaska, you can always call the fire department. (I'm sure ABC does not condone that idea, but this is my blog, right?)
Cindy