What was in the letter?

An audience member asks Graham what was in that letter he gave DeAnna when he was sent home.  He's kind of evasive and just says that he wrote down his true feelings and that DeAnna was probably touched by what he said. 

Comments

[Susan]

Graham had the opportunity to share his feelings to DeAnna in a private way, in his true form. It was tasteful that his letter was not exploited for ratings. DeAnna respected Graham and even though she didn't select him, I'm sure he made an impact on her life and her ultimate decision. Good luck to Graham!

[Carol]

DeAnna should choose JASON because he is sooo totally in love with her. You can so see it when he looks at her and I think see feels the same too.

[Nancy]

The letter was meant just for DeAnna. Regardless of what was said in that letter, Graham was just not right for her. DeAnna is a strong woman who needs a Man that can recognize that and still know that she is a woman and needs to be held and spoken to and loved openly.

[Dawn]

I really believe that Graham was falling for DeAnna. I think if DeAnna had given Graham a chance she would have found a love that only a hand full of people find!!!!!!!!!!!!

[LaCava]

I think Graham wants to be the next Bachelor. I think he was there for that reason only.

[Glenda]

I think Graham was not the one for her. He has issues and he clearly showed them throughout the whole event. This type of behavior is the recipe for disaster. She made the right decision to let him go.

[tracey]

I'm glad that Graham didn't fall for Deanna, after tonight, I think she is kinda rude and snobby.

[Kathy]

I agree that it seemed like Graham really was falling for DeAnna. I think she was smart to pay attention to the "red flags". Whether or not it would have worked...who knows? My husband is walled off like Graham and it's been very challenging to our marriage - even though I know he loves me.

[lissa]

So right Dawn. Wished they could still get back together but she's all wrong for him. He's too good for her.

what is up with all the blue bracelets????

[JoyceVoice]

It's exciting to read and relate to everyone's perspective on DeAnna's last two choices. I'm equally divided on who she'll choose. Although Graham and DeAnna definetly had extremely strong "lust" for each other(she so admitted)...he chose to "open-up" in a little-too-late letter. I'm pretty sure his demeanor is his pattern of life...of which she probably realized that she'd be doing all the work...even before the "I should-a-told you sooner" note from him. I hope he's learned not to drag his feet/feelings if he's going to have a 50/50 relationship. Good luck DeAnna and ? ('~')..Love to all!

[JoyceVoice]

THE next Bachelor??..SEAN!OMG!..What a hunk!!!

[lovefan]

Graham was a class act and handled himself very well and I don't believe he was campaigning himself for the next bachelor - I would be shocked if you saw him again.

I still detected some bitterness out of Deanna but with more time and reflected in her terse statement to him.

No matter ...

Rock on Graham ... you stayed true to yourself.

[tara]

What is Deanna thinking by choosing Jesse week after week. Not only is he not good looking, they look terrible together! I also think that Jesse has a lot of growing up to do. What could he really offer Deanna? I think he is just saying all the right things so Deanna picks him, but I think Deanna made a big mistake by letting Jeremy go so soon.
Hopefully she'll be smart and pick Jason at the final ceremony.

[Judy]

I agree with Tracy. My opinion of Deanna has definitly changed. She led Jeremy on the same way she claims Brad let her on. Jeremy is a great guy and I'd love to see him be the next batchelor. I don't see marriage in the future for Deanna with the remaining two. She will eventually find something not up to her standards with them also.

[Rbunzy33]

You could so tell that Deanna still has feelings for Graham! She could hardly even look at him, and kept turning red. They probably would have had a rocky road, but he was/is the one that makes her heart race. You can't find that with just anyone. She should have given him more time-and see what could have been. I think, with her remaining choices, Jason is the one she'll pick. He is very sweet. I'm not sure she deserves him though. She seems "ALL ABOUT HER". That could be trouble w/a child involved. Ryan(I believe it was)is spot on with the "OCD" comment! Good luck to Jason...Graham, you will find someone better! She was right about one thing, you are smokin' hot!

[Maureen]

Deanna has done well considering. From the beginning I felt Jason was for her. She is family oriented. Jason is strong and loving. They will be perfect. Jeremy has to many emotional skeletons and Graham is still a player.

[Patti]

thank goodness Graham and Jeremy got out!!!

[Susan]

Of all the men that were in the house I think the only one that was honest and upfront was Graham. Personally I liked Deanna at the beginning of the show but as time went If she did not get what she wanted she acted like a two year old. And at the men tells all ceremony when she said she was engaged and very happy she did so by turning and directly looking at Jeremy and Graham how childish. Very disapointeed in her.

[lopa]

i am shocked to see Grahm ,and then Jeremy go...why she showed so much feelings towards them then...it is so much mystery!!!!!!!!!

[Julie]

ABC always fools us in the end. They made it appear that it is going to be Jason so that makes me think it will be Jesse. Guess we'll know when we see who gets out of the limo first..... Until then....

[TINA]

I WANT TO KNOW WHAT KIND AND COLOR LIPSTICK DEANNA WEARS. THROUGH ALL HER KISSING, IT STAYS ON HER LIPS AND NOT ALL OVER THE MEN...AS MUCH KISSING AS SHE DOES IT COULD GET PRETTY SLOPPY FOR EVERYONE INVOLVED.

I AM HOPING SHE CHOOSES JASON. HE IS A GREAT DAD AND EAGER TO LET HER INTO HIS LIFE. HE MAKES HER FEEL SAFE AND IS VERY ROMANTIC. HE HAS BOTH THE REALISTIC SIDE OF HIM AS WELL AS HE IS CRAZY I LOVE WITH HER. HIS FAMILY SEEMS GREAT! JESSE IS A GREAT GUY BUT STILL NEEDS TO MATURE A LITTLE. I THINK HE IS TRYING TO FIT HER MOLD BUT I AM NOT CONVINCED HE IS QUITE AS READY TO SETTLE DOWN AS HE SAYS...YOU KNOW THOSE SNOWBOARDERS! HE LOST ME WHEN HE SAID AFTER SNOWBOARDING HE JUST WANTED TO BE HAPPY AND MONEY DID NOT MATTER...MONEY ISN'T ALL IT TAKES BUT LET'S FACE IT YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO SUPPORT YOUR FAMILY. ALSO, DEANNA SEEMED A LITTLE HESITANT ABOUT MOVING AROUND AT THE DIFFERNT TIMES OF YEAR TO FOLLOW THE SNOW.

[judy]

'Graham has been a class act since the beginning of the show. He NEVER put on airs just to win Deanna's heart. I think the way he went about their relationship was healthy. He took it slow and was guarded with his feelings. Why wouldn't he ........combined between the episodes, they probably only spent a few hours together......I think viewers forget that. Their "alone" time was most likely very limited. I think Deanna is fooling herself if she doesn't think Graham was the one. I find it quite ironic that the night she let Graham go she had mentioned how she had feelings for him that she just didn't have for the others. Jason actually lived in the house with her for a week and he was the one that comforted her the night she came home upset, but she still didn't have those feelings for him?????? Now, in one date she miraculously is in love with Jason and Jesse? PLEASE! Last comment.....did anyone catch the comment she made about becoming a strong woman and hiding her feelings after was Brad had done? What a hypocrite! Isn't that what she was all over Graham about. I feel Deanna is an "all about me" girl.

[Steffie]

I'm telling you, I really, really think that she is now engaged to Graham. She said she was engaged!!

[Jimbo]

Graham was the one - for a while. Jason will be it at the end.