Graham's family

Here we go:  this is the first girl that Graham's brought home in a looong time.  Red flag!  Graham's mom is super sweet, I like her.  DeAnna has a heart-to-heart with her and asks if she thinks Graham is ready for a serious commitment, but doesn't get an answer that sets her at ease.

After the parent time, Graham does his cryptic (or passive agressive?) emotional thing where he sort of checks out.  Dude, you're destroying your chances when you wall yourself off like that. 

Comments

[sarah]

OMG her dress is terrible, not flattering at all!! what is she thinking?

[TheSweetness]

GRAHAM FOR THE NEXT BACHELOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[anna]

OMG...Please make him the next bachelor!!!!!!!

[Gramham needs to get over hmaelf]

He is too into himself. How cn you love someone else if your in love with yourself. I Don't see where he is all that.
De Anna One smart lady...

[Pam]

I have to say, I think Graham may have been doing it for the "wrong reasons"...the publicity, for example.

If that's true--he would probably jump at the chance to be in DeAnna's shoes and be the next bachelor, and if he does, I will not like him as much. It will seem like that's what he was after all along--the spinoff press.

Could you imagine Graham handling all those ladies? With the same generosity and graciousness? Not.

[Tina]

If DeAnna really is falling in love with Graham and she thinks he is the one then hopefully she will be smart enough to bring him back. Maybe he just has trouble expressing himself. Jason is also winning my heart...Jeremy is just to needed..."I don't want you in my life...I need you!!!" & Jesse is just not ready.

[katie]

DeAnna, I've been married to a guy like this for almost 25 years- believe me -run!!! you will have kids and they will fill the void but eventually when he still does that ridiculous quiet thing it will only get on your nerves!!! you need someone more vocal- especially when you fight and he just walks away because he doesn't know how to communicate!! Let him go-it's not worth it- too bad his mom was great!! His father is just like him- poor her!!She's the one with all the spirit!!

[deb]

I was surprised that she let Graham go, but they really just had a physical connection. They already fought too much - that means it's physical to me. I can't read Graham well enough to know if he's a jerk or not, but I'm leaning toward jerk.

Jesse has grown on me. He now kind of reminds me of how Ryan Sutter was with Trista. I like that his family seems to be very dependent on God. He also seems very respectful and moral. He's taking the physical aspect slow, but opening up to her.

I'm surprised I like him so much - I thought he was too immature for her in the beginning, but my opinion has changed.

[karen]

Jason is the one. Settled. Rock steady family guy, Warm and caring. loves life.

[Tobs]

PLEASE BRING BACK GRAHAM>>>>>PLEASE< PLEASE PLEASE.......

[Wanda]

I think that Jason is the one who has a true heart. That can be seen through the love for his son. Did not like Graham. Jesse too weird, he's childish

[Katie]

Bring graham back seriously. There is an obvious connection between the two of them. Maybe some people just have a hard time showing their feelings.

[lynn]

Graham and Jessie were the only REAL guys left. Jesse is awesome, just not her type for the long haul. Jeremy is just weird, fake and too needy. Jason is very, very, sweet, but I have three great kids of my own, and it is tough taking the resposibilty of my own kids...much less ones that are not mine. That is a huge undertaking.
Now Graham...she totally screwed up on that one. I am married to soemone like him and it is hard to get that type to open up, but they are usually the ones who are most sincere, most sensitive, and have the biggest heart. So he didn't really care to share her??? Are you kidding, he IS the one who is most in touch with reality. Maybe he was going to tell her what she wanted to hear, just not in front of all of the cameras. She will greatly be missing out on someone who would have been in love with her forever and a devoted sole. He might have had communication issues, but the "cheeziness" that she and others give out on this show...those relationships will not last a year. I have been married to someone like Graham for 12 years, it takes some patience but the committment is rediculous. This day and time, isn't that half the battle?

[Peg]

I wouldn't want to know anyone who could not love a child if it wasn't theirs by blood. I have step children that I would lay down my life for. I don't have to give birth to have a child. Blood doesn't make a parent. Love does.

[Christine]

I was shocked that she let Graham go. She did it to hurt him and will end up hurting herself more, I think she will always wonder what could have been.

[Christine]

PLEASE Deanna, beg the show to get Graham back
!!!

[lyndsay]

AWWWW i liked graham he was challenging and deanna needs that....and too bad jeremy is boring otherwise he is pretty perfect...jesse i like but maybe just a friend either way alittle late in the game...and jason too easy and abiding for deanna no one likes someone who is not going to challege you...YEP..THATS what i think!

[Bring Graham back]

I think Graham was sincere. I think he had a hard time with the whole process, but would have been there in the long haul for Deana. Uggghhh, it was too soon. Bring him back, Pleaaaaasssssseeeeeee....

A big mistake, not keeping Graham. She is choosing with her head and not her heart. It is obvious he has deep feelings, but does not want to display them on nationwide TV. He's to be respected.
Jesse could be a life long friend, but that is probably where it will stay. Jeremy's drive is to win, in life, and have financial sucess, above all else.
Jesse is a wonderful caring person, but DeAnna would be the lead, in that relationship.
Posted by: Jane/June 23, 2008

[terri]

Did no one hear Mom's comment that Graham has never had any relationship last longer than 4 weeks??? He could not even talk to her when it counted most? Sorry - that ain't no marriage material!!

[Angelina]

Graham destroyed his chance at love. He's arrogant, and lacked commitment. Even when Deanna asked Graham's Mom if he was ready for a commitment, she couldn't give a good answer! It was his detriment in this relationship.

[Denise Costa]

Last night was very very disappointing. Graham might have issues but I believe he was willing to work things out. What does Deanna expect from only knowing him for such a short period of time.

Also, he is uncomfortable with sharing her!!!!!!! Give him another chance and read the note and take back your choice of letting him go. CALL HIM BACK TO THE SHOW!

[Julie]

Graham should be the one. DeAnna, please don't let what happened with Brad cause you to let go of true love. It doesn't happen too often. I believe Graham will open up once the cameras are off. I hope the show has your best interest at heart and brings him back into the running. If not, you will always have to wonder if you let the right one go.

[ida]

I don't know what she saw in Graham. All I saw was a sexual attraction, which is great to have with a spouse but you can't live on it. Seems like all the did when they were together was kiss. I can't see him as a dad, which we know is very important to her. I say go Jason. I would choose him.

[Sarah]

I think Graham was really into De Anna, he just does not know how to express his feelings, which is a shame. I think De Anna will always wonder "what if". I hope we get to see the letter that Graham wrote!